it's almost been a week, so i guess i should post something, huh?

um...
i know! explaining this thing here.

alright let's start at the beginning.

i'm friends with Miss. Mycenarum, have been for a while. now, no offense to anybody, but i just don't think of people as 'dating'. i've never dated so it's such a foreign concept to my mind that i can barely comprehend it refering to someone i barely know, much less someone i know well.
which is why, when Miss. Mycenarum said she was daiting, i was very much surprized.
and my surprize quickly turned to curiosity.
who is this young fellow? what does he do? how did he meet? Mycenarum does live in a mushroom after all, it would surely be interesting to know how they met... and so on and so forth. untill it got to the Question.
what does he look like?
now, let me say again, that Mycenarum  lives in a luminous mushroom, making visiting very... problematic.
and so i thought to myself, "If i can't visit to see him in person, the next best thing is a photo, right?"
so i go on and ask for a photo of the young fellow and find that there is none to be had.
sure, i'm disappointed, but se la vie! i shall let it go.

but i'm still curious about the other things. Mycenarum is my friend and so i want to know more about the things that she likes and the things that interest her. plus, i don't want to see her get hurt and, god forb it,  if someone does hurt her, i want to see that they understand how terrible it is that they hurt a good person like Mycenarum.  
and to do those things, to learn about her and to look out for her, i want to know about this new person on the scene. that's not so crazy, is it?
but, at the same time, part of being her friend is respecting her and accepting boundaries, even if you don't understand them. so, since she doesn't want to share details of her personal life, then she doesn't want to share details of her personal life. who am i to question the judgement of a friend?
so, oh friend who lives in a mushroom, you will have no more questions from me!
(or at least very very very few...)

so there you go.
it's all been explained.

:D